Tuesday, July 29, 2008

Days of '47 part 2: The Osmonds

I was fourteen years old when I fell in love with the Osmonds. I actually only fell in love with Donny, but I loved the music of the whole group. I take full responsibility for introducing my siblings to the Osmonds (sorry sisters-in-law), my own children grew up listening to their music as well. For some reason when an Osmond song comes on, particularly Love Me For A Reason, someone grabs the nearest microphone substitute and starts lip syncing (it is rumored that one of my sons while attending the same party as Waynes daughter sang an Osmond song for her...seriously. I won't say who it is but I'll give his initials J. Leger or....Jeff L.). It's always a lot of fun. I attribute my ear for harmony to the fact that I listened to their albums and harmonized with the Osmonds in my youth. It would have been my dream come true to see an Osmond concert in the 70's, but it never happened. In my teenage years the famous brothers didn't even perform in Utah; but I have had a few Osmond sightings over the years including seeing Donny in concert three years ago and a few years back seeing him in "Joseph..." but my teenage dream came true on July 26; as part of the Days of '47 celebration the Osmonds performed at the Conference Center with the Tabernacle Choir. Mike and I took Caitlin and Chelsea (who are both at the age I was when I first fell in love with the Osmonds) and we were pretty excited to discover that our seats were way down in the front. All seven of the performing Osmonds were there, and near the end they invited their two older brothers up to the stage to do sign language for their final numbers. It was an amazing evening and we all loved it. It was hard to hold back the tears as they performed Through the Years and photos of the family were displayed on the big screens, even the Osmonds had a difficult time singing through their tears.The Osmonds will always be one of the fondest memories of my youth. I'm glad my daughter was able to see them in her teenage years; and that she was there when one of my teenage dreams was fulfilled.

Sunday, July 27, 2008

Days of '47 part 1: The Parade

In Utah we celebrate Pioneer Day or The Days of '47 on July 24 every year. This is in commemoration of the first Mormon pioneers who entered the Salt Lake valley in 1847. They left their homes in the east after being persecuted for their beliefs and treked across the country making many sacrifices along the way, for some the ultimate sacrifice. In the years following 1847, thousands of pioneers made their way across the plains. Many came from other countries crossing the ocean by ship, and then had to cross the country in covered wagons and many pulling handcarts. I've always thought that I didn't have any pioneer heritage (my children do through my husbands family), but I have come to realize that my parents were pioneers too; in 1962 they left their homeland, family, friends, and belongings and traveled across the ocean (by plane) and then across the country (by train, not wagon train but the California Zephir) to make a new home and a better life for their young family. I am so grateful for that. There are many celebrations each July 24 throughout the state. In Bountiful there is a parade attended by thousands each year. Many go a day early to place their chairs on the sidewalks and streets to reserve their spots. It's a time for fun, enjoyment, and community spirit as we watch the parade wind it's way down Main Street. This year I was a volunteer at the parade. In fact, I wasn't really a volunteer, I was asked to fulfill a church assignment and help at the parade. Another woman and I were stationed together on the south end of Main Street where we were to hold up signs as the parade passed letting the floats, cars, bands, etc. know if they need to speed up or slow down. We wore orange vests signifying that we were parade officials. We found a driveway approach to an apartment complex where nobody was sitting and decided to stand there so that we wouldn't be in front of anyone, blocking their view to the parade. There were people all around us but not on the approach where we stood. After we had been there several minutes a young woman put her blanket down right in front of us, in fact the blanket was touching our feet. She put all of her children on the blanket. She didn't even look at us or say anything. It was as if we were invisible. We quietly moved to the side of them. A few minutes later she asked us to move (remember, we were there first), my associate explained to her what we were doing, but when she didn't accept that answer my associate then kindly told her that we were there first. The young woman was very rude to us and made it clear that the parade was for the patrons (as volunteers we were trying to make it nicer for the "patrons"). She accused us of not caring about the children who were watching (the same children she literally placed on our feet). Within a couple of minutes a man (senior citizen) approached us, he was shaking and mad. He started accusing us (loudly) of not caring about the children, everytime we opened our mouths to try and defend ourselves he just talked over us. He asked for my name and when I wouldn't give it to him he pulled out this huge (I mean professional) camera and informs me he's going to take my picture. I turned my head to avoid the camera (he was in my face) and he proceeds to circle me as I turned my head back and forth trying to avoid his bullying. At this point the people directly around us started saying rude things and I could see another woman aiming her camera at us. Needless to say this was a frightening situation. I won't be going to the parade again as a "volunteer" or as a "patron". Even though I'm recording this experience, I really just want to forget it. In the immediate hours following the incident when I could think of nothing else, I realized (for the ba-zillionth time in my life) that there isn't much I can do about how others act, only how I do. I feel proud of how I handled it. I walked away. My spirit was hurt a lot. I had a couple of tears stinging my eyes behind my sunglasses. I said a little prayer that I could forgive them their trespasses. I decided to make this a learning experience and reminded myself that in daily interactions with others to be more patient, less judgemental, kinder, listen to others, be compassionate, show love, think, be forgiving, be humble, etc. People bullied, threatened, and harrassed the pioneers, they made them leave the spot where they were first. They left and found another spot; I'm grateful for that and I'm grateful for my pioneer heritage.

Saturday, July 26, 2008

Which Jane Austen Heroine Are You?

I am Elinor Dashwood!

Take the Quiz here!

You are Elinor Dashwood of Sense & Sensibility! You are practical, circumspect, and discreet. Though you are tremendously sensible and allow your head to rule, you have a deep, emotional side that few people often see.

Wednesday, July 23, 2008

Tag I'm It!!!

4 Places I visit frequently
1. The grocery store (Dicks or Target)
2. Homes of my family members
3. Church
4. The Doctor's office

4 People who call/Text/Email me regularly
1. Michael
2. Caitlin
3. Jeff
4. Mother

4 favorite Foods
1. Asian salads (at restaurants)
2. Roast beef and Yorkshire pudding (best when my mom makes it)
3. Chocolate
4. El Matador chips and salsa (to go)

4 Places I'd rather be
1. The beach house
2. Britain
3. Disneyland
4. East or west; home is best

4 Movies I'd watch over and over
1. Pride and Prejudice (BBC version, twice a year)
2. Watcher in the Woods (once a year)
3. Jurassic Park lll (rrruuunnnn!!! once a year)
4. Houseboat (every couple of years, but I just bought it so it'll move up to once a year)

4 Bands/Groups I like to listen to...
1. Endless Summer (Mike and Andy)
2. The Osmonds (I'm going to see them on 7-26-08)
3. The Carpenters
4. The Partridge Family (laugh away, but that's my favorite music to listen to on my ipod while I'm walking)

The 4 People I am tagging are....
1. Mother
2. Lilian
3. Marivic
4. Margie

Tuesday, July 15, 2008

Echoes of the Heart


The charm of music dwells not in the tones, but in the Echoes of our Hearts

Oliver Wendell Holmes

It was in January of 1997 that my friend Terri asked me if I would like to join with a group of women that she was organizing into a singing group. We were going to perform a sesquicentennial (150 years since the first pioneers arrived in the valley) program for a Relief Society birthday party that March. Our pioneer program was beautiful and inspired and after performing it once we were asked by someone else, then another....and the rest is history. Our group (originally known as the Daughters of Denim but then changed to Echoes of the Heart) has been performing on a regular basis for the past 11 1/2 years. Originally we had six singers and an accompianist. In 1998 we added three more singers which gave us three on each part. The Echoes have performed throughout the community for church functions (particularly Relief Society birthday parties and Christmas parties); community events; family parties; company parties; funerals (we once sang at a funeral where President Monson was in attendance, unfortunately I was at work and couldn't go); many times for the DUP (Daughters of the Utah Pioneers) and even the SUP (Sons of the Utah Pioneers); we've traveled to Idaho and to Eastern Utah and we've sung at rest homes and retirement centers. Two of my favorites are our yearly performance at Temple Square and our traditional "Stress Rehearsal" which is a dress rehearsal we perform for our families at the end of November in preparation for our upcoming Christmas season. Through the years some of the faces of the Echoes have changed causing us to say goodbye to an old friend but welcoming a new. The faces are changing again but this time it takes on a new meaning for me because I'm the one saying goodbye. I would just like to share a few memories of my years with the Echoes: weekly practices where we sometimes talked more than we sang; seeing how the seasons of our lives changed as we each experienced changes in our family dynamics (babies, graduations, missionaries, weddings, grandchildren, etc.); sharing in each others joys as well as the awareness of one anothers trials (even those borne silently); feeling the spirit as we sang sacred songs; lovely dinners and nice gifts; having a stranger in the grocery store come up and ask; "did I see you singing in my ward last night? It was beautiful."; costumes; choreography; Mother's Day programs; visits in cars as we drove to performances; quarterly parties and lunches in the effort to visit there and not so much at practice (it didn't work, we still talked at practice); finding an empty room (sometimes a bathroom) where we could pray together before a performance; "Chocolate in my Stocking"; once being introduced as "the Ladies of the Night" by mistake (big mistake). It has been an honor and a privilege to sing with these women; my friends, and to share these memories and many, many more with them. Goodnight ladies!! Love ya, MEAN IT!!

Saturday, July 12, 2008

Happy JULIO Part Dos

Thanks to my family and friends this was one of the happiest JULIO's that I've ever had!! I love you guys!!

Thursday, July 10, 2008

Happy JULIO!!!

A few years ago we were at the Buzz baseball game. I just happened to glance up at the huge scoreboard just in time to see the lit up digital letters JULIO. Thinking I was reading the stats of the current player up to bat, I excitedly brought it to the attention of those who were with me, "that player has the same birthday as me, July 10!(JULIO)". My son Jeff (laughing) informed me that was not the players birthday, but his name; Julio.Today is JULIO and I'm 50 years old!! What ever way you look at it (half a century, five decades, 15 years from Medicare and Social Security) it is better than the alternative. I'm so grateful for all the many blessings that I enjoy in my life and I'm looking forward to the next 50!!! I also want to wish Happy JULIO to a few of my birthday buddies; Alyssa Marsden (my neice), Brenda Smith, Lindsey Nelson, and of course Jessica Simpson!!
Here I am in one of the places I love the most; with the one I love the most (together we're 100)